Southern Traditional Family Room Transformation
Inside: Looking for ways to update existing features in a family room without starting from scratch? See how we opened up this cramped space and made over the built ins to make our family room larger and more functional!
At the very top of our priority list when we moved into our traditional southern fixer-upper was to remodel the kitchen and family room to make them even usable.
Call us crazy but we loved this house enough to see past what it looked like the first time we saw it.
And a cosmetic facelift was definitely in order to say the least. We hardly had anyone over to the house in the first few months before this remodel…it was just too embarrassing!
It was shocking to see the interior after driving up to its beautiful facade.
There was so much weirdness inside.
Then and now.
If you’ve been here before you know I love French country, but the original outdated French country theme was a bit, ahem… tacky. And the space layout itself was just so strange, where forcing lots of vintage-style ideas into the room took over good plain common sense.
The adjoining kitchen was equally bizarre but is now one of my favorite rooms with its modern French country makeover.
The two rooms were renovated at the same time, becoming one large area.
The plan for the family room makeover was actually mostly cosmetic—more so than the kitchen. It was not in the budget to gut the space and start over considering everything we had to do to this house. And there were features that we did like when we looked past the awfulness and separated them in our mind.
The family room also needed to flow with the kitchen since it would now be one area, and also with the rest of the house. This was our goal for every room…to make each one fit seamlessly with the overall style and not sterilize the unique things that drew us to the house in the first place. In the end, we hoped to have a home that was classic, traditional, full of vintage touches, and full of warmth, charm, and patina. (Minus some of the weirdness.)
What had to go.
Are you ready for some “before” pictures? (I apologize for the quality—they were taken with an old IPhone whatever-it-was-seven-years-ago when we looked at the house.)
What had to go other than the profusion of ivy, grapes, and plaid? The biggest change came from opening up the kitchen and family room into one large space. Before, there were two partial walls that separated the kitchen and the den from each other, making the two spaces seem smaller:
By taking out the arch opening wall on one side, and removing the wall with the range on the other side, the rooms are no longer cramped and closed off. It is so much more bright and open now!
In order to take out the walls, we had to have a header support beam put in that runs the width of the kitchen. You would never know the majority of our budget for our family room makeover went into this little area of the ceiling:
One of the features that was forced into this room without enough space to accommodate it was a Victorian iron spiral staircase that took up way too much of the floor real estate.
And look at how ridiculously crammed the small scale sofa (previous owner’s contents) and coffee table are to the fireplace in a room this size! If you wanted the seating to face the television and fireplace there was no other option.
We had the main staircase one room over so this one wasn’t essential. On its own I actually liked it. It reminded me of something you would see in New Orleans. But not only did it not fit, a spiral staircase seems dated in a family room unless you live next door to the Brady Bunch. In 1973. But because it was nice, we were actually able to sell it. You never know what people will buy on FBMP!
After the renovation, you would never know it was there. It was located where this hutch is. And now the sofa can be placed at an appropriate distance from the fireplace.
The original mantel design still leaves me speechless. Vintage inspired? Yes. Ugly? YES!!!
I wish I knew what the intention for this frame was. That is actually an extension of the mantel, not just a frame that is propped on top. My guess would have been to frame a TV, except that’s a TV cabinet on the right.
I would have loved having a built-in to hide the television in the 80s and 90s. But this size TV doesn’t cut it with our family anymore. The very first thing my husband did before we even moved in was take a saw to the top of this cabinet so that we could set our TV there until our remodel. You can tell where his priorities are. 😂
Let’s look at the built-ins now after their refresh…
We liked that the built-ins were the focal point of the family room, so we wanted to leave them in place but we made a few modifications.
The bottom cabinets of the tv section stayed in place. We had the top modified to hold a large flat screen with a shelf above for decor or electronics. We had the carpenter copy the arch and top molding from the left side built-in.
The carpenter replaced the strange mantel monstrosity with this traditional style more fitting to the house and built it all the way up to the 12-foot ceiling. The brick surround is actually still the same although it looks somewhat different after some sanding and Grout Renew. And a little black paint on the fireplace cover made the outdated brass disappear.
This side of the built-in was actually not modified at all. It just got the same paint as the rest of the cabinets and trim and some new knobs. I removed some of the shelves—they were too close together and only suited for small items which looks too cluttered in my opinion.
What stayed.
I’ve talked about the things we changed that we did not like about the room. Now let me share what we did like!
The floors throughout the kitchen and den are slate outlined with brick. We like how easy slate is for daily use, especially with a pool. I also like its rustic look. It offsets some of the more formal and feminine features in the house.
But I have a nostalgic soft spot for brick. You’ll see it a lot in Louisiana indoor architecture and I love its casual, rustic feel. This is one of the unique features of this home that got me. I even brought it up onto the backsplash in the kitchen remodel, using the extra that was stored in the attic.
We were able to patch the slate and brick where the walls were removed and copy the brick pattern surrounding the room where needed. The existing floors needed a little TLC. They were covered in a yellowed glossy sealer that you may notice in the before photos. It even made the brick around the fireplace glossy.
I also liked that the room already had crown molding lining a tray ceiling. It just needed a paint job and a new ceiling fan. No picture of the old fan with its grape motif but trust me, it was hideous. We also added recessed lights to the family room and kitchen area to brighten things up.
The other thing that I liked about this original room was the number of windows on both sides. Lots of natural light in my rooms makes me so happy!
We removed the blinds to paint and decided not to put them back up. We don’t get direct sun into the room, so not even the arch shutters are really needed. The room feels larger and taller without them.
I love looking back at where this family room started and the transformation it underwent. I’m so glad we could see past what was here before and make it into a comfortable, usable, yet still unique space for our family to hang out in!
Thanks for coming in for the tour—be sure to read about how we came to buy this house. And more details on the kitchen renovation and the living room, dining room, and foyer area revamp.
You can also check out the changes to our primary bedroom and primary bathroom.
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Love the warm beiges. Can you share the colors. I go to the store and instantly get defeated in the paint area!
Hi Kathy! My walls are a custom tan paint color but I have the color code you can take to the paint store to get a sample. You can find it under the “Favorites and Finds” category in the menu, and then “Shop my Home”. https://southernhomeandhospitality.com/shop-our-home/ There’s a picture of the code in there towards the bottom of the post. Let me know if you have any other questions!
Wow! I just luv your taste in everything! It turned out beautifully, and I think it’s a true
Cinderella story. Congrats!
Thank you so much for these kind, supportive comments Cheryl!!
Love what you did with the entertainment center. Did you paint it or have it done. I would like to know what paint you used and any prep work needed.
Thank you
Maureen
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Thanks Maureen! We used as much of the original woodwork as we could, but had a carpenter rebuild the top of the TV section and totally rebuild the mantel. So before we painted I think we had four different kinds and colors of wood on that wall! We had it professionally painted with a paint sprayer and I cannot remember if they did any prep beyond some sanding of the original stained wood. All of our woodwork in the house is painted with Swiss Coffee in a satin finish. It’s a Benjamin Moore color but they had it mixed at Sherwin Williams. I hope that helps!
Just saw this on Pinterest and love the remodel and how you saved some of the original design ideas and updated them. I love all the colors and how they mix the different styles. Love your coffee table. I have been looking for a coffee table to replace mine that is probably 35 years old. Love it but changed my sofa to a sectional and it doesn’t really fit in the room any more but hate to get rid of a perfectly. Good table. Any ideas as to wear to look for a coffe table similar to yours?
Thank you Pam! I bought that coffee table from a local furniture store when we moved to the town we’re in now. Which would make it over twenty years old and I didn’t even realize it! I think it’s worked for me for so long without getting too outdated because of it’s glass top and the iron color of the metal.
The transformation of your kitchen & family room are amazing! You really have a talent for design!
Thank you so much for that kind compliment Becky! I have no formal training, just years of decorating, experimenting, researching, and learning to trust what looks good to me.😊
Hello- love your blog. Can you tell me where you purchased that leather sofa from? I have a similar one that needs to be replaced and absolutely love the color and details of yours.
Thank you so much!
Hi Sheila! I’m so glad you like the blog!! My sofa is made by Bernhardt and it’s from the “Foster” line, which I think is a classic style they always offer. The color is why I like it…Bernhardt calls it some kind of gray ( I can’t remember the exact color name) but it looks grayish brown in our room. It came in this color at a local furniture store but I’m sure it could always be ordered in that color wherever you live.
Hi I am from jamaica my name is dona mier
Words cannot expain how I ienjoy every part of your house
Super house
What is the color of your living room chairs
Thank you Dona! I’m glad you found me all the way from Jamaica. My chairs in the formal living room are a taupe (gray/brown) linen.
Gorgeous living room! I add you as my featured project this week on the Wonderful Wednesday blog hop over at myhomierhome.com Thanks for partying with us!
Oh thank you Christin! Love that link party…you ladies do a wonderful job!
Your family room and kitchen are gorgeous now. Love what you did with the built-in TV wall. I wish I had seen this before we built! Oh well, maybe in time… Thank you for sharing your decorating expertise.
Thank you so much Jessie!